Anger channelization

Some wise men said that  friendship can be done with a person who is less or more capable than you but always make enemy is at least 10 times more powerful than you.
The reason behind is that if your enemy is more powerful than you so to overcome him and to prove yourself more worthy first you will make yourself at his level.
In this way you have already raised your level. Now it will be turn to prove ahead of him you will anything possible to win.
So in cover of revenge you have already raised yourself at your peak which your friend cannot do. 
A friend can only motivate you, support you but he cannot give that kick which is required to get your zenith.
According to my experience take taunts and negative comments about you as gifts and channelize your whole anger and frustrations in a positive way.
Prove yourself that you are worthy and can do anything.

Why Self Esteem is Important?

Some things may be equally valuable but nothing is more valuable than a healthy sense of self esteem and loving yourself, caring of yourself and embracing the best from you.

•  When you only love yourself the first thing which happens to you than you don't have to prove yourself in front of anyone, you face every one with a negligible expectation from you and speak freely in front of anyone.

  

  LOVE YOURSELF

•  You become the rider of your own soul. and can move your interest in any direction because now you only care of yourself, you don't allow anybody to take control of your life, your dreams and your path.
  
• Having a low self esteem shows that you have a very low image of yourself. You don't find yourself fit in the environment and either start neglecting your environment or choose different appropriate ways to impress others by suppressing your true identity.
• Most of the people are suffering from from a low esteem by there body structure or skin color. Howsoever someone neglects its but that's the true fact that everybody is suffering from this issue.A fat person scares if we ask him or her for a party or beach view.They found themselves not fit in outings and the person who is dark in color feels that he or she cannot be approached or they cant approach. Believe it guys best couples are not formed due to color they are formed due to the affection and love they share. You just need to believe it and start trying and approaching the things you want to do and achieve.
  
• Low self esteem and high self esteem are not born from birth. They are the gifts or curses which our society and or family environment give to us. If a person is suffering from low self esteem then it is the result of the continuous taunting and pressure which he/she is bearing from his/her childhood.A child who brought up in a conservative family environment mostly the children from those family suffers from this because they are taught at every point that whats is bad for them instead of telling what is good for them.
• And the children who are born in an open minded family are more confident about there identity and thought. They express themselves freely and do whatever they want in life without any second thoughts because they know if they fall then there family is always there to support them.

“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs, ask yourself what makes you come alive. And then go and do that. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.”

Art of seduction

                                                       

Art of Seduction

So here we are on the most important and the most neglected topic"Seduction". Well most of the people thinking about sex but guys trust me its a way high than sex, its an art which everybody should know how to use it.

As we humans are of different personalities and different choices so this applies differently for each ones. You can seduce someone professionally,mentally,sexually and personally too.For this you should first know the basics of some person like what is his/her lifestyles ,passion and the way he is acting in front of you or in front of some other ones.

Step 1:-

Act like a "HUMAN", please don't be a jerk or the person who you are not, because if you do that then you have to pretend that for rest of your life and if by some other way your real personality comes in front of that person then don't gonna like you.

Talk to him just try talking. you can start from his basic profile like what are his hobbies , what he want to achieve in his life, about the places he want to go or have gone, some adventure he has done or the views about you.....yes that the point to go. now by asking this first questions you have made him comfortable on your level now if he replies all that in an easy way then he will surely ask the last question freely without hesitation.

Step 2:

Perfuming:

A person judge another person first from his eyes and then from nose. First of all looks doesn't matter if u like a person., but if you smells bad then it clearly gives a bad expression about you. So do perfume yourself daily.For girls "musk" can help you a lot. Musk is one of the most sensuous perfume of all time. it can make a guy mad about you. If possible use 2 to  perfumes for different parts of body. This can depends on your choice because of course it is your body ,you are the person who have to deal with it whole day.Use rose water for your hairs. Musk for lower body and any other flower of your choice on your hands.

A good perfume not only please you but  well as the other persons who are nearby you.Which makes a positive effect on each other.So now you have won that guy half.

Step 3:

Now plan some outings with him. Go to a place which you both like and spend some quality time with him. Discuss some close and personal topics with him. well as a boy howsoever we look tough but we also want  someone to talk us about our problems and feelings..By asking him personal questions you will get closer to him and can make a special place for you in his heart.

Step 4:

After spending some time please don't make it a scene for years just ask him what he feels about you. More the time you took to impress him this gap can make his mind diverted from you. so hit on the hot iron and make him yours.

Step 4:

if he says "NO"... chill down don't be mad now. He is not the last men on this planet and you are worth more than anyone.So move that awkward situation from a fall out to friends zone and don't just stick to him u didn't loose anything . You make yours efforts and keep on doing it on others . You are a passenger here keep on walking.

Want Peace ?

There is a simple and easy trick to get peace in your life. Many of us are now occupied from many in necessary people who bother us and disturbs us in our day to day life. You just need to cut out of them from your. You will feel less burdened. Just put those people in your life who matters to you like your Family ,close friends your close neighbors.

You must be thinking like who are those unnecessary people so they are from your social life fb, twitter or any dating site. who text you at some random moment and you are forced to meet them because you cannot say no to them because of human nature of curtsy. seriously my phone was full of this of there types of people who were sucking my time and i was unable to give time to myself and my friends infant i was getting cutoff from my real friends. They are the people from different backgrounds and when you meet then and share there experiences you will will fantasized by there life and inspect of concentrating on your life you will start to deal with there shits.

" THE LESS PEOPLE YOU DEAL WITH LESS SHIT YOU HAVE TO DEAL"

So try this formula it worked for me i hope it will work for you too.